Jeffrey Eugenides is on the New Yorker’s fiction podcast with Deborah Treisman this month reading Harold Brodkey’s “Spring Fugue.” They talk the anthology Eugenides edited and why he’s drawn to Brodkey. If you’ve never listened to the New Yorker fiction podcast, do. There are some lovely writers reading stories not their own, and then a bit of discussion with Treisman. Beware, though. Sometimes I find it unsettling to hear an author’s voice after I’ve read their novels. Fortunately, Eugenides has a nice voice and there was nothing too strange (in the sense of “oh, I didn’t imagine him sounding like that“).
If you’ve got some time, or if you have household chores, check out this dialogue between Salman Rushdie and Eugenides. They discuss Rushdie’s most recent book among other things. Eugenides tells a story about trying to visit Rushdie when he was young and had just read Midnight’s Children.
Eugenides reminds me why I love good writing. At the sake of sounding like a spiritual weirdo, there’s something transcendent about the sense of awe that comes from brilliant writing. I think of O’Connor’s Mystery and Manners, in which she touches on mystery in religion and literature. I suppose all good art (whatever that means or however you would define it) brings a person to their knees (hopefully not in idol worship but in appreciation of the creation, perhaps the Creator, too, at least for the Christian [if I were to digress further, I’d mention Romans 1:20). For example, I have never liked swimming. I don’t like getting wet and I’d much rather be running if I have to be active. But after watching the U.S. Olympic swimmers and Michael Phelps’ historic feat last night, I was awestruck by their strength and athleticism and the sheer technicalities of their sport. Ryan said he’s become “a student of swimming” in the last week, and he explained a little about the way the “wake” affects a swimmer. (Forgive me my ignorance of swimming terminology, and please ignore any blunders.) At any rate, I think a person can find beauty and meaning in things as vastly different as sport and art and science and even cleaning. A person who does something well allows others to see the beauty in their work (be it auto mechanics, landscaping, or writing). I’m reminded of Donald Miller’s initial words in Blue Like Jazz.
Family Dinners and Disappearing Values
My favorite way to spend family gatherings, second only to playing hide and seek, various sports, and indoor and outdoor (sometimes made-up) games with my cousins, was crowding around the kitchen. Okay, maybe it was a tie with playing cards. But still. Growing up we spent a lot of time with my mom’s side of the family since my grandparents lived within five minutes of us and my cousins visited regularly. Few activities are more fun than wedging your way into a kitchen full of Italian-Americans talking and cooking.
Reading chapter nine in Animal, Vegetable, Miracle brought back memories and starting me thinking once again. Kingsolver writes about the value in a shared family meal and cooking from scratch. I didn’t realize it was rare to sit down to dinner with your family or to spend weeknights at home until I went to college and learned that many people did not know family dinners and spent most nights with friends. I’m enjoying all the time Kingsolver spends ruminating on food culture and all its extensions.
We’re on a tight budget, by choice mostly. We take as much joy in buying fruits and vegetables and eating healthy food as some people do in going to the movies or bowling or whatever is the activity du jour. This past weekend we took advantage of the grand opening sales at Sunflower Farmers Market. We, and throngs of people, were like giddy children going from one item to the next, amazed at the prices and variety of food. We didn’t even make it to the other half of the store.
Unfortunately, the more I read of Animal, Vegetable, Miracle, the more I realize the process of changing and establishing new food habits will take time and money. Most of what she writes is not new to any awake person. However, her book convinces me to finally take the plunge, that it’s worth it. I’d rather spend money on food than on clothes (although, that’s a no brainer for a shopping-detester like myself). But it will take continued research to find quality food. It’s scary to think of what goes into to our food. A good friend told me on Friday that the insides of babies contain pure, perfect organs and parts, but you have to cut through the thick layer of fat to get to adult organs which are surrounded by all sorts of grime and grossness. If that’s not motivation enough to eat better, I don’t know what is.
Of course, the issue of food (organic, local, healthy, time-consuming, from scratch) is counter-cultural, as are most worthwhile pursuits. But I want to take time now to build a life that lives in tension with our culture and embraces disappearing values. But that is another topic for another time.